By: Priscilla A. Wainwright, Ph.D., CPC
There are 3
key areas of life that, as humans on this planet, each of us must deal
with. Men and women, however, will deal
with them somewhat differently based on culture and our innate biological
make-up.
The Big
Three are Self, Life (the Universe), and Others. Anyone who is truly happy and successful
will have created successful, meaningful, and satisfying relations to all
three.
Likewise,
when it comes to DISCOVERING and FULFILLING OUR DESTINY, again – a positive,
empowering and meaningful relationship with all three is essential.
The same is
true with EXPERIENCING and RELEASING
YOUR “INNER TIGRESS”, your true and powerful Inner Feminine
Spirit.
Full power
can only be experienced and manifested when Self, Life, and Others have been
addressed and brought into alignment.
There are 3
Key Questions, according to Claire Zammit and Katherine Thomas (1), that help guide and direct our minds and
hearts when it comes to discovering and fulfilling our personal Destiny as
women. The first is:
1.
What are your deepest, innermost yearnings?
Many women harbor deep yearnings,
burdens on their heart, that somehow
never get realized in a truly meaningful way. If this is your situation, maybe now is the
time to identify and voice them. Doing
so is the first step to creating intention behind them and mustering the energy
to ultimately birth them into reality.
Sit down at
your computer or with pad and pencil and write them out. Putting them into words will help you define
and clarify them, and also help your focus.
Question 2
helps raise this conversation with your Self to a higher level.
2.
What is it that God(dess), or the Higher
Intelligence in life is calling you to do that inspires you?
The Larger Truth is that
God(dess), or the Universe, conspires to help you
succeed. If you
haven’t experienced this, perhaps you have not yet “put yourself into the
way”. The poet, Goethe, said “When one
commits, the Universe moves too. All
manner of meetings and resources come one’s way that any one would have
imagined”. The Law of Attraction works
the same way.
Take time to
ponder your yearnings. You’ll know your
answer to Question 2 when a burden on your heart resurfaces again and again and
never goes away, it doesn’t matter if you’re busy or occupied with other
things. The Hound of Heaven never gives
up. She’ll chase you ‘til you decide
to commit.
Question 3 takes us full circle, and is a
critical key to focus and implementation.
3.
What needs of others inspire you to joy and
action?
Henry Ford said, “Find a need and
fill it”. There is little more
frustrating than
creating something that no one wants. Ever spend a lot of time planning and
cooking a special meal, and the family didn’t like it? Or spend days planning this great party,
and no-one came?
Answering
Question 3 accurately is critical to your ultimate success and happiness in birthing
your dream into reality. It is also
critical to sustaining energy. Meeting
important needs fuels passion more and more.
Fred Buechner
ties this all together beautifully:
“The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and
the world’s deep hunger meet”.
ACTION STEP:
Ponder and
journal. Play with these 3
questions. Take time. Don’t rush. Revisit your answers a couple of times,
sharpening the focus if you need to.
Don’t concern
yourself with “how” at this point. Once
the vision is clear, the “how” tends to come.
Be open to
feedback, but be careful not to be swayed away from your essential truth.
Also, stick to
the excitement of the present, and a vision of a successful outcome. Fear always accompanies change. Fear can shut you down if you let it take
hold. Don’t let yourself go there. You’re not implementing at this stage.
Have fun,
Tigress! Let joy and peace and
curiosity accompany this exercise.
Next Blog, I’ll
introduce 6 questions that will guide your next steps.
Rise up and
ROAR, TIGRESS!!!!
© 2014 Priscilla A.
Wainwright - All rights reserved.
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Copyright 2014 – Priscilla A. Wainwright, Ph.D., C.P.C.
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