Friday, February 21, 2014

Find and Fulfill Your DESTINY - Part 1: The Big Three - How Are They Calling You




By:   Priscilla A. Wainwright, Ph.D., CPC


            There are 3 key areas of life that, as humans on this planet, each of us must deal with.   Men and women, however, will deal with them somewhat differently based on culture and our innate biological make-up.

            The Big Three are Self, Life (the Universe), and Others.   Anyone who is truly happy and successful will have created successful, meaningful, and satisfying relations to all three.

            Likewise, when it comes to DISCOVERING and FULFILLING OUR DESTINY, again – a positive, empowering and meaningful relationship with all three is essential.

            The same is true with EXPERIENCING and RELEASING YOUR “INNER TIGRESS”, your true and powerful Inner Feminine Spirit.

            Full power can only be experienced and manifested when Self, Life, and Others have been addressed and brought into alignment.

            There are 3 Key Questions, according to Claire Zammit and Katherine Thomas (1),  that help guide and direct our minds and hearts when it comes to discovering and fulfilling our personal Destiny as women.    The first is:

1.     What are your deepest, innermost yearnings?

Many women harbor deep yearnings, burdens on their heart, that somehow
never get realized in a truly meaningful way.    If this is your situation, maybe now is the time to identify and voice them.    Doing so is the first step to creating intention behind them and mustering the energy to ultimately birth them into reality.

        Sit down at your computer or with pad and pencil and write them out.   Putting them into words will help you define and clarify them, and also help your focus.

        Question 2 helps raise this conversation with your Self to a higher level.

2.     What is it that God(dess), or the Higher Intelligence in life is calling you to do that inspires you?

The Larger Truth is that God(dess), or the Universe, conspires to help you
succeed.   If you haven’t experienced this, perhaps you have not yet “put yourself into the way”.    The poet, Goethe, said “When one commits, the Universe moves too.    All manner of meetings and resources come one’s way that any one would have imagined”.   The Law of Attraction works the same way.

     Take time to ponder your yearnings.   You’ll know your answer to Question 2 when a burden on your heart resurfaces again and again and never goes away, it doesn’t matter if you’re busy or occupied with other things.   The Hound of Heaven never gives up.    She’ll chase you ‘til you decide to commit.

     Question 3 takes us full circle, and is a critical key to focus and implementation.

3.     What needs of others inspire you to joy and action?

Henry Ford said, “Find a need and fill it”.    There is little more frustrating than
creating something that no one wants.   Ever spend a lot of time planning and cooking a special meal, and the family didn’t like it?    Or spend days planning this great party, and no-one came?

      Answering Question 3 accurately is critical to your ultimate success and happiness in birthing your dream into reality.   It is also critical to sustaining energy.   Meeting important needs fuels passion more and more.

     Fred Buechner ties this all together beautifully:   “The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet”.

ACTION STEP:

      Ponder and journal.   Play with these 3 questions.   Take time.    Don’t rush.   Revisit your answers a couple of times, sharpening the focus if you need to.

      Don’t concern yourself with “how” at this point.  Once the vision is clear, the “how” tends to come.

      Be open to feedback, but be careful not to be swayed away from your essential truth.

      Also, stick to the excitement of the present, and a vision of a successful outcome.    Fear always accompanies change.   Fear can shut you down if you let it take hold.   Don’t let yourself go there.   You’re not implementing at this stage.

      Have fun, Tigress!    Let joy and peace and curiosity accompany this exercise.

      Next Blog, I’ll introduce 6 questions that will guide your next steps.

      Rise up and ROAR, TIGRESS!!!!

(1)  Zammit,, C & Thomas, K.  Feminine Power – Destiny course.  www.FemininePower.com.

© 2014    Priscilla A. Wainwright - All rights reserved.



 
    
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